How To Pick up Girls - The Go First Concept
Seducing women and making her fall in love with you is quite a challenge and a skill that is the dream of many-a men. It is so easy for a beautiful woman to seduce a man. All she has to do is look at you a certain way and you're ground beef ready to be made into patty in her soft, wicked hands. That isn't fair! It is time men unleash their inner Catrinel Menghia and learn how to seduce women with the Go First Principle!
How to seduce women with the Go First Principle
One of the most powerful principle on how to seduce women is the Go First Principle. It is a principle from the psychological and hypnosis fields.
Essentially, this principle says that the easiest way to make someone do something is to do it first yourself. Similarly, if you want someone to enter a certain emotional state, you should go into that state yourself and they will unconsciously follow you.
This principle can be readily observed in our daily lives. We always tend to share other people's emotions, especially if they are close to us. This is the main reason most of us prefer to be in the company of fun, lively, and positive people and stay away from negative or depressed ones. Emotions are contagious and naturally we all only want to experience positive emotions.
We can use the power of the Go First Principle to our advantage, especially when it comes to seducing women and keeping a relationship fresh and exciting.
First, the conditions before you apply this powerful principle
In order to fully utilize the power of the Go First principle, you need to fulfill a condition: your emotions must be stronger than the other person. Because the stronger the emotion is, the more likely it is to subdue or influence all other emotions.
For example, let's say you have a strong emotion of excitement because you have just bought a new car. You meet your best friend and you tell him about your shiny new ride. However, your friend is feeling depressed because his football team just lost the finals.
Nevertheless, because of your strong excitement, he will suddenly feel excited as well and be happy for you. On the other hand, if his emotion is stronger, you may get depressed and forget about your brand new car. In the end, it all comes down to which person has the stronger personality or is able to show stronger emotions.
Control your emotions!
When it comes to seduction, the Go First Principle applies very similarly. Let's say you go on a date with a beautiful woman and you are very nervous. A couple of minutes in your company and the girl you are dating might feel nervous and awkward as well due to the Go First Principle.
She doesn't understand why she feels this way but something about you makes her feel ill at ease. So she goes to the bathroom and then out the door and out of your awkward little life.
However, you can turn this depressing situation around if you just learn to control your emotions. In order to be able to apply the Go First Principle, you must first learn how to control your emotions.
The key to controlling your emotions is to RELAX! I know, it is extremely difficult relaxing in the presence of a beautiful woman. But she is just as nervous as you are and even a little scared because she's in the presence of a total stranger - you! So it's your duty to make her feel relaxed and comfortable.
So how do I make her feel relaxed and comfortable? The Go First Principle in action!
You go on a date with a beautiful woman and you are relaxed, calm, and confident. For reasons unknown, she feels calm and relaxed and feels like she's known you for a while. You display body language that is relaxed and laid back. You give her an easy smile, make jokes and tease her. She smiles back, return your jokes and is relaxed and comfortable.
Then you make an emotional connection by leading the conversation to intimate topics. You share personal stories and experiences first and she feels comfortable opening up to you ...
Guide the interaction into one of comfort, relaxation, and intimacy. By confidently Going First, you make it easy and natural for her to follow where you lead her. Choose the kind of emotional interaction you want and move in that direction by applying the Go First Principle!